“You look great”

“You’ve got your figure back after child-birth”

“I envy you, you look fantastic”

Can you see the thread? Its always whats outside a person isn’t it? I mean, especially when the compliment comes from another woman. Its like a sheer confirmed sign of validation that yes, you are indeed good-looking or you look great. Does not matter whether right there, in your medicine cabinet lies the bottles of diet pills that work or not. The fact is, you heard it from a woman, your peer, it must count for something.

I don’t think it has anything to do with what one woman thinks or feels about another. Praises and all are generally very well accepted in any instances. So, why does it mean more when someone from the same gender gives a compliment? It’s all about the bitchiness! I am serious. Think about it. We all bitch about other women, we hardly have anything good to say about another except about our friends. Even then, that is questionable. So it is that much harder to get a compliment from a woman than say compared to getting one from a man.

Men on the other hand aren’t natural born bitches. Although, the level has somewhat gone up these days for unknown reasons but still, they are pretty much laid back. Small body anatomy can always be compensated with material wealth, its no biggie. However, its not the same thing with a woman. Flashy cars will not be envied by another woman, only slimmer bodies will.

No one can ever explain this phenomenon. Well, who cares right? As long as I got the compliment I needed from my woman neighbor, I don’t even need to know the whole story of evolution. Really, I don’t!